http://www.mothersover40.com, Motherhood later
http://www.mothersover40.com, Motherhood later
Share
Welcome to Mothers Over 40!





A positive and encouraging resource for all older parents and those planning to conceive after the age of 40 and upwards







                                        
                                        










Mothers Over 40, which was established in May 2002, is dedicated to all older mothers, fathers, mothers-to-be and anyone who is planning a pregnancy later in life, whether it's your first, second, third, fourth, fifth or even twentieth child!  The aim of this site is to offer encouragement, inspiration and hope to older parents around the world and to be a positive resource amongst all the negative statistics that you may read elsewhere about having a baby over the age of 40. If you wish to connect with other parents and those trying to conceive, please check out the meet-a-mum page.

When I was expecting my fourth child at the age of 39 (giving birth at 40), I found very little encouraging information that was specific to older mothers, despite the fact that in some parts of the world, women have been conceiving in their 40s and 50s for decades.  As a freelance writer, I was eager to gather information on the positive aspects of midlife parenting, but despite spending a huge amount of time scouring bookstores and the Internet, I realised that such information was at a premium. If I could have found a positive site offering me reassurance, along with all the information I needed and answers to the many questions that I had, it would have saved an enormous amount of time, energy, frustration and anxiety.

My pregnancy was straightforward and free from complications, apart from severe morning sickness (24/7), which had also afflicted me during my previous three pregnancies.

I hope that people will beging to focus more on the positive aspects of midlife parenting and less on the age factor. Do the sceptics assume that we all metamorphose into incapacitated wrecks once we hit the bit Four-O, who are only capable of sitting in a rocking chair knitting and napping? I don't think so.

I hope that this site will be a comfort to older mothers everywhere.  If there is anything specific that you would like to see included on this site, please let me know!

If you would like to read more about me and view photos of my family, please click the About link. 

Jan Andersen
Freelance Writer & Owner of Mothers Over 40

Book - Enhancing Fertility After Age 40
My Personal Experience of Pregnancy and Birth at 40
Older Moms Message Forum
She Knows - TTC After 40 Message Forum
Women Over 40 With High FSH Forum
Midlife Mommies Message Forum
ClomidClub Support Group Forum
Pregnancy Over 40 Forum
Moeder worden rond de veertig jaar:
Fertility Shop
Best Quality Progesterone Cream
Enhancing Fertility After Age 40

Improve YourFertility Naturally















This Site is Dedicated To My Late Son

On Friday 1 November 2002, my eldest son Kristian, aged 20, tragically passed over after deciding to end his life on Halloween.  He left behind a one-year-old daughter, Kayla.  His most outstanding qualities were his compassion, forgiveness and concern for those less fortunate than himself.  I taught him the value of helping others and will continue to follow his example by supporting those who have come to this site for comfort and reassurance. I think that tthe loss of my son proves that your life expectancy cannot always be determined and that just because you are an older mother does not necessarily mean that your children will outlive you.

Jan Andersen     

Support for families who have lost a loved one to suicidee

Chasing Death: Losing a Child to Suicide
This Week's Features


Pure Oasis Serene Progesterone Cream - For US customers

Having difficulty conceiving? Download this revolutionary ebook now

Are They Seeing The Light? (The Media Finally Adopts a Positive View on Older Mums)

Having Babies in Our 40s Made Us Better Mothers

Midlife Mother’s Day 2010 Awareness Campaign

Meet a Mum - New Posting - Anna, 45, Sweden

Meet a Mum - New Posting - Josanne, 46, Nr Manchester, UK

Meet a Mum - New Posting - Lori, 41, Chicago, US

Have you got an interesting true life story surrounding older motherhood?

Media Request: Calling for Participants to take part in a PhD Research Study

Media Request: Did you find yourself unexpectedly pregnant in your early 40s?

Media Request:  Mother and Daughter Pregnant at the Same Time Wanted for Documentary

Meet a Mum - New Posting - Anna Maria, 42, New York USA

Native Remedies Detox Drops - Buy 2, Get 1 FREE

Herbal Remedies For Fertility - your complete herbal remedy and health supplement super store!

The Moocup - a reusable menstrual cup - an innovative alternative to tampons!


Read A Selection of Articles by Jan Andersen


"The notion that all women over 40 have problems conceiving and suffer complications during pregnancy is just not true. The women who tend to have complications are those who smoke, drink alcohol, rarely exercise, have pre-existing medical conditions or who don't look after their general health particularly well.  I have seen many unhealthy, younger women suffer from terrible complications during pregnancy and healthy, older women who sail through pregnancy and give birth to exceedingly healthy babies. I think that a lot of people need educating on this and not to believe all the negative statistics that they may read about older mothers."

Obstetrician, London, UK
NOTE TO JOURNALISTS AND TV RESEARCHERS


Need interviewees or programme participants?

Interviewees and participants needed

Midlife Parenting – Q&As
Back to Top
©Jan Andersen 2002-2010
All rights reserved

Disclaimer and Privacy Policy
The UK's Premier Resource For Older Mothers and Fathers
Tell a friend about this page
Kristian Mikhail Andersen
born 22 March 1982
died 1 November 2002
Aged 20
Low rate advertising on Mothers Over 40
Kristian with little sister Lauren - 2000
Click here
Enhancing Fertility After Age 40 - An ebook for immediate download
(Updated August 2008)
He Had a Heart of Gold
Only £5.99!
Sales of this book go towards helping to support this site. Ebooks are delivered over the internet, vastly reducing any pollution caused by a postal/delivery service. Consequently, Mothers Over 40 has a low C02 footprint. 
Recommended Books





Welcome to the home of Flower Power Mom—a forum for women who gave birth after forty—where the truth about midlife motherhood is revealed.

Born in 1960 (the era of “flower power”), Angel La Liberte gave birth to her two children in 2002 and 2005, at the age of nearly 42 and 45, without the aid of ART. She was so profoundly affected by midlife motherhood that she’s now launched a website and blog dedicated to revealing the truth about motherhood after 40. With humor, camaraderie, nostalgia,  news, survival tips, research, and online resources, Flower Power Mom aims to help “midlifers” cope with the after effects of Midlife Momtov Cocktail  (when early child-rearing meets impending menopause).

Unwittingly, she was soon drawn into the rising international cause célèbre in the baby-making stakes—the fast-growing population of ‘mid-life moms’.

An experienced writer and public campaigner on divorce and relationship issues in the media limelight, Angel was a regular ‘guest expert’ handling live phone-ins on over 200 television and talk shows—including BBC and ITV news and breakfast programs—and leading newspaper and magazine features, in the UK through-out the 1990’s.

Angel moved to California in 2007 to raise her family and ‘weigh in’ on the controversy surrounding the rise of the ‘granny-moms’ and ‘tell all’ about their hitherto secret lives through the launch of her website and upcoming book—Flower Power Mom.

Sign up for the Flower Power Mom website monthly newsletter! FPM News is a digest of information for mothers over 40, including: What’s Up In The Media, Book Reviews, Links, Readers Letters, Kids’ Korner, Vintage Quotes. Your letters, comments, kids’ stories and tips are all welcome!

Midlife Mother’s Day 2010 Awareness Campaign

Chasing Death: Losing a Child to Suicide

On Halloween 2002, Jan Andersen’s 20-year-old son Kristian found a permanent solution to his misery. Suicide.  He wrote two suicide notes, took an overdose of Heroin and died on Friday 1 November 2002. Chasing Death attempts to put candid, but heartrending words to the often incommunicable pain that the surviving families endure, not only through the telling of Kristian’s story, but through the experiences of other families mourning the loss of a child, stepchild, sibling, friend or relative to suicide.

Although this book will break your heart, it will also provide solace to other child suicide grievers in knowing that their thoughts and feelings are normal and that they are not alone, in addition to being helpful to anyone who has lost a child or has been bereaved in any way. This book clearly demonstrates how debilitating the grief can be and how it can still cripple a survivor, ten, twenty, thirty and even forty years or more after the event.

Share
Breastfeeding Older Children

Ann Sinnott, who breastfed her own child until the age of six and a half, draws on child development theory, neuroscience research and statements from hundreds of parents, to explore the reality of this taboo practice.
Chasing Death: Losing a Child to Suicide
Average rating 
£1 from every book sold is being donated to Kidscape, the UK charity committed to keeping children safe from bullying and abuse.  Chasing Death is currently available on Amazon worldwide and in all good book stores.

To read some chapter excerpts, please click here.
Note to Journalists:

Please click here if you require a personal comment from Jan Andersen regarding pregnancy after the age of 40, 50 or 60. You fill find the majority of answers to your questions on this page. However, please do not use without Jan Andersen's permission. Thank you.
Jan Andersen, January 2010
Helping to Raise Money for Kidscape
The Book of Grace/Vol I: The Lost Pages